Today I'm thrilled to have special guest Denise Patrick, sharing about the best gift she's ever had. :) She's also generously offering a $15 Amazon GC to one lucky commenter!! Please follow her directions for the giveaway, and good luck!
Love for Christmas
The Christmas season is my favorite time of the year. Not
because of the music, or the festive atmosphere, the spirituality, or the
gifts. I love each of those aspects, but for me the Christmas season brings
hope. It brings hope that good things can and will happen, hope for the
approaching New Year to be better than the last, and the optimism that life has
a purpose and this might just be the year to discover what mine is.
Over the years, I have received and given many gifts. Some
were fun. Some were pretty. Some were practical. Some were whimsical. But the
best gift I ever received came 27 years ago today. Of course, I had to work for
it, but having my daughter in December has added an extra helping of love and magic
to the Christmas season for me. Unfortunately, the magic also comes with a
downside.
Growing up with a birthday two weeks after Christmas, I was
not fond of having my birthday mixed up in Christmas. As a child, I always felt
as if I was somehow cheated by the proximity. And, while I no longer think that
way, I didn't want my daughter to possibly feel that way either. For that
reason, I always insisted that we not decorate the house until after her
birthday - a difficult prospect for my husband, who always wants to put the
tree up on or about December 1.
My daughter unwittingly solved the problem without ever
knowing there was one. Each year since she was about five, when asked what she
wanted to do for her birthday, she invariably wanted to put up the Christmas
tree as a family.
Last year, she got married on December 6. Needless to say,
with everything else going on, the tree didn't go up until close to her
birthday - even though she wasn't here. This year, she and her husband will be
here for Christmas, but definitely not by today. My husband and I have just
returned from ten days in Austria and Germany, so maybe this weekend we will
get the tree up.
Regardless of when we get around to decorating for the
season, we will have a blast and remember the Christmas we had a 12-day-old who
had no idea, but was fascinated by the lights.
Love for Christmas
is also the name of my short story available from Samhain Publishing.
’Tis the season—for love.
Falling
in love at first sight—with another man’s wife—was hell for Phillip Houghton.
Never mind that he knew Julianna’s husband to be a thoroughly unsavory man, the
ring on her finger meant she was off limits.
Even
after the man’s untimely death, Phillip put even more distance between them,
leaving the country to give her time to heal. Three years later he is back, and
determined that nothing will let her slip through his fingers. Not even his
status as a second son.
To
all outward appearances, Julianna is content with her life as a widow with two
small children. On the inside, the scars of her husband’s abuse feed her
general distrust of men. Phillip makes her painfully aware of how lonely her
life truly is, but why marry again when she has all the family, and security,
she needs?
Yet
as Phillip wins over her parents and children, she finds herself drawn to him.
Dare she trust her mind—and her heart—for a second chance with forever written
all over him?
Warning:
Never underestimate a man who is willing to deal with a two-year-old in tantrum
mode.
I
will be giving away a $15 gift card to Amazon. Leave a comment to be entered.
The winner will be drawn tomorrow at noon EST and their name will be posted
shortly after.
Denise
Patrick
27 comments:
great post today. and would LOVE to win the gift card seeing as i am out of work and i could use that to get a couple of gifts
parisfan_ca@yahoo.com
Looks like a lovely story. Love the Warning. :) Merry Christmas to your Christmas Season Baby from another Christmas Season Baby. :)
Aww...that does sounds like a really special gift. My dad's birthday is the 29th and I always worked really hard to make it special since everyone forgets it and it does bother him. This year they scheduled our family party on his birthday without remembering it was his birthday. Maybe it is easier to have a birthday before christmas while people are still in celebration mode. Sorry for the ramble, have a good holiday
fencingromein at hotmail dot com
Thanks for the great post. Thanks is a very special gift.
Love for Christmas sounds fantastic. Can't wait to read it. Thanks for the giveaway.
liked the story intro, happy holidays and thanks for the giveaway! - regnod(at)yahoo(d0t)com
This sounds like a really good story & I cant wait to read it. I was a victim of abuse for a short while & these type of stories always touch my heart (or pisses me off...lol) Thank you for the giveaway & hope u have a joyous Holiday season. Big Hugs
missie25524 (at) netzero (dot) com
Your daughter must appreciate how you wanted to make her first. BTW, what an adorable baby photo!
Thanks for the giveaway.
strive4bst(At) yahoo(Dot) com
Enjoyed reading the comments. Cute baby!
MERRY CHRISTMAS
JWIsley(at)aol(dot)com
My honey and two of my nephews bday's are in December. I try and not make them feel jilted with the holiday in the same month if I can.
Hope you and yours have a very Happy Holiday!
vampiremistress2010(at)gmail(dot)com
My sister and brother both have Birthdays in December, six days apart..My parents always made sure not to have them mingle together with Christmas.
Enjoyed reading your post today.
Thanks for the giveaway.
Happy Holidays
elaing8(at)netscape(dot)net
I have a friend who was a Christmas baby and is still whining about it to this day. :) I think some people never grow out of it. Your story sounds lovely. Happy holidays!
JYL22075 at gmail dot com
Thanks to everyone who has commented so far. I'm glad I'm not the only one who has made the effort not to mingle Christmas with a birthday. As an adult, it no longer bothers me, but children don't really get it, so I think it's important for them to know that they are important enough to be separate.
I'll be back tomorrow to pick a winner of the gift certificate.
Hi Denise. Thanks for sharing a part of yourself and family with us. It was nice.
Sorry about that. I'm using an Ipod Touch and it's very touchy.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
Chris
ceagles48218@yahoo.com
Hi Denise! Best warning, ever, and I love Samhain warnings. That one's the only heartwarming one I've seen.
We never had a set date to put the tree up, and this year it's more about when we can get together to do it. My boys are 18 and 19 now, so my daughter who is 12 and I are doing the decorating. We are having a great time!
Merry Christmas:)
wayfaringwriter at gmail dot com
Nice post and cute pic.
bn100candg(at)hotmail(dot)com
Thanks so much for the giveaway! Christmas is one of my fav seasons as well! Love the decorations and all the yummy food!!
grapeapril75(AT)gmail.com
Love how you made your daughter's birthday separate from Christmas! I'm a November baby so my bday is always celebrated combined with Thanksgiving...it's just too close to (always a few days before or after) the holiday but some years I rebel and insist on not having turkey on Thanksgiving.
Love for Christmas sounds like a lovely read...I'll go to take a look! Thanks for sharing and happy holidays!
ivegotmail8889(at)yahoo(dot)com
What a sweet story, Denise! And yay for you, keeping your daughter's birthday special! As much as I love Christmas, I appreciate those who remember my birthday separate from Jesus' birthday ;)
f dot chen at comcast dot net
Sounds fantastic...the happiest of holidays to you and your family, Jodi!
vitajex(at)aol(Dot)com
Thanks everyone for your wonderful comments. My daughter has always appreciated the thought, but she just loves Christmas, so doesn't mind.
And now, the random generator has selected Post #1 as my winner today.
Congratulations LAURIE. Your GC will be on its way shortly.
Thanks again to everyone who commented. And, thanks to Jodi for hosting me.
we did the same my brother is xmas eve renumber mom would nt let us open the gift til she got home on the 29 which was a bummer dave come in to the world xmas eve and no gift but now he older we put the tree a day after thanksgiving because of is bd when my grand came over she gave us ther gift so we had 2 xmas that year
Cute cute cute picture. Thanks for sharing :)
bas1chsemail at gmail dot com
I have a cousin who always felt that way growing up. His is today-Dec 28th and his gifts were always "combined" and he hated it.
carolyn
j-coverholser(at)sbcglobal(dot)net
Cute cover!!
lauratroxel@yahoo.com
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